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I'd rather him tell me why he feels I was so angry with him - than for me to try to figure it out. Ugh. I feel like he knows more about me than I do...and that bugs me. Like he has me all figured out, but wants me to figure it out for myself.
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Yes! I know this feeling, MUE. Sometimes I feel like T knows the answers to his questions better than I do. He sears he doesn't--but it can be hard to believe.
The challenge of therapy can be exploring what our feelings are, in our own minds. This seems like it is something important to continue picking at--whether in group or individual, that it is so raw means it can be really helpful to uncover more.
Not talking about it last week doesn't mean you can't try again next time. I always have to tell myself that, as it can take me a month or more to broach some subjects!