You may have touched on something here... She has never said please or thank you. It feels to me she just takes. And yes, it feels like she is taking advantage of me and yes, I feel offended.

Maybe the key is she is a taker and I am a giver. Usually this doesn't cause me any grief. But for some reason it is now. So the bottom line is it is not the food. This girl is triggering me big time.