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Originally Posted by RiverX
...... another question, did she actually tell you? Its diffucult sometimes when a T tells you what to do/ not do, even when they're right, or specially when they#re right! ... at his best, my T. has said things which cleared the way for me to step up to the mark, from there it became obvious what I needed to do, so it didnt feel like he had stepped into authority.
(but I dont think Ive yet had a T. who hasnt slipped into telling me what to do at some stage, and that included him, those relationships being imperfect by nature...  )
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She said that yes, but it wasnt said in a school teachery way, it was an observation.