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Old Dec 27, 2009, 05:42 AM
Melbadaze Melbadaze is offline
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Originally Posted by RiverX View Post
Yeah, relate.
A phrase which helped me at times:
"a sadness from which great consolation springs" From this, also, (as wellas the M+Kl lit), I get that when I'm triggered, its a frantic feeling, which is in contrast to the legitimate sadness, the realistic compassionate grieving. I thnk the triggered expereince is when I'm on the recieving end of the INTROJECTS implications and intentions. Too often I'm living in frantic mode, so I'm reminding myself of what I need as I write. To face the reality and emormity, the fuse-blowing poignancy and tragedy is too much for a single human heart, so, that is where I have tried to allow God, or higher power, or universan powers, - whatever - to take care of and hold what I cant hold.
.. thanks for what you said, answering feels helpful for me too.
Is that melanie klein lit?