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I agree with the others, sounds like fear and/or anger is blocking you. Therapy would help - especially if both of you go together. Start in little baby steps to tell him how you feel, use "I" statements. Talk about YOUR feelings. Feelings aren't good are bad, they just ARE. We can't control the way we FEEL. What you do about feelings, what you CAN control are your actions - they can be good or bad.
Not talking about your feelings with your partner will eventually cause problems in your relationship. Perhaps enough to end it. If you start openning up sooner rather than later, you can either get a much better relationship going sooner. Or you'll end one that was never going to work out or be good for YOU sooner, saving you both time and pain.
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