hi all.

my girl and lived togeter for thirteen yrs until 5 months ago,when we split but spoke daily on the phone,1 month later she is dating a guy i know very well-(i must say that this guy was married and is seperated for 2 years.and his wife is on the sene aswell small town the 4 of us live within 3 mile)yeah sure i done all the mad things but have now come to terms with it.she called me uo 5 days ago and we meet at my house,we talked all night for 9hrs she asked me for hugs which i gave but was unsure she cryed it was wery emotional for us both,she said she was going to tell yhe new guy she wanted a break and she did but the next day she told him she made a mistake but he just said we will leave it at a break,so 3 days ago she calls me up we get on really well and she tells me maybe to much bout new guy.i gave her my opinion and told her be on her own for a month or 2,her reply is i just want to go with flow for a while.i said to her that if her and new man are togeter (which i knew they would be)not to contact me.it has been hell the last few months but im on the up.any advise what my role is here in this 3 person relationship?is she rebounding or have i got a chance of getting her back.we both have a strong bond and love for eachother,she also told me that with new guy somthings not right or somthings missing.what do i do help??????