Wow, cool title. Intense information. If guy lies a lot, asking him questions will just confuse the heck out of you. But you have worked hard on your recovery. Please do not put that in jepordy. You also need to keep your sons safe as well. As far as him coming back into your life with his new tatoo, if you really want to know why, you might have to do some investigating on your own. It seems like that night a few years ago when he fell on you, you took the opportunity to build a new life in spite of your injuries. Keep posting, keep moving forward...looking forward to seeing your posts.