well its back on with other guy,its hard cause i see them alot and ill see them new years eve.what if i were to talk to her and ask her if there were a chance for us,and just explain that i cant be waiting round while she is intimate with other guy.would this scare her or would it sound as if i was pressuring her.i know her head is all over the place.but i was doing so well until she called to me last week (getting councilling sleeping tabs ect)fell much stronger after all the pain.but now she has got my head thinking 24/7....confusied..????