I don't think there has to be anything "wrong" with you just because you got into a relationship with a married man..they are the best talkers. can make you think the moon is really made of cheese. I think sometimes our self esteem gets low and we really really want/need for that "someone special" to come into our lives and maybe at that lowest point we are willing to have whoever shows us that kind of attention and talks the talk..You will get thru this!! we are all here for you.