Just a thought here.....Would it be appropriate for me to go to adopted Mom and get some more backround on what he is dealing with / going thru? I'm not quite sure how to proceed as I'm left hanging...He's the one that made contact, but when I ask him anything personal he gets very negative and comes across like he's trying to "shock" me? Trying to get a neg response back? I haven't....I've pretty much told him " whatever floats your boat"

I can't even begin to imagine trying to talk to him on the phone....