hey all, I have a somewhat similar situation, but reverse roles, i.e, i am the guy and my wife has been showing some of these traits. I do more cooking, thinking of grocery lists, cleaning, even making the bed most of the time. In reading the above i felt men were singled out as behaving in such a manner...just adding that there are women out there as well .

Any female perspective on why my wife might be acting so? I do not smoke, or stay out late, very respectful, try to put her needs before mine as much as possible. I feel I am the father...