i think u are expecting too much of her. i dont care what others say on this, sounds like you two are very different people and have different lives and expectations. i know this because this is how me and my fiance are, it doesnt mean u cant live happily together. if u love a person with all your heart and want no one else in life then u guys should be together, and i think that because you are so successful and have much initiative doesnt mean you should be dissapointed that your wifey isn't the same. you love her, that is that. the end. dont expect SO MUCH from her!! its ur life u are stressing about , not hers!