I used to be really really bad in that way when younger. I'm forty now and have had to work so hard on myself in the area of feeling offended and overreacting, feeling hurt and then guilty. I still feel like this even now. Any improvements I've made are through shear tenaciousness and wanting to better myself. It's been a tough road with all my other emotional difficulties to contend with. I do relate to you. Feel so insecure about myself that I take things the wrong way when spoken. You are honest in speaking about yourself. That's a really good quality. Keep on plodding :-)