I was trying to compromise with him and not make it so hard for him to cook meals....now I just feel like a poser. My relationship with her is completely dissolved. I've found out that she's done some very deceptive things when I have been nothing if not an overly-kind friend to her. I'm not sure what will happen between me and him as there are some deeper issue between he and I and the story is a little convoluted. I'll be sitting down to have a long talk with him tonight. Thanks for the concern and kind words.