Thanks for the replies. To be honest, I can't stand her. I love her, but I have really no reason to be around her. I already know that if I was to see her again there would be nothing but trouble. My sister and her husband would get upset about something that I would do. My sister loves to be the center of attention. When you do something that upsets her, she will find a way to get revenge. She likes to control people, and I don't like to be controlled. I could write a book on our issues. Right now one of her kids isn't talking to her, because her son went and lived with his dad. The stepmom told me that my sister took her son's car from him, and some of his savings. The stepmom told me that her husband had to take my sister to court so the boy could get his car, and money back. Her other son graduated back in June, and my sister just showed up. The stepmom told me that she didn't even give him a card or anything. I really feel bad for the kids. Yesterday she was trying to tell me how my cousin had her kids taking away. I didn't even want to hear it. It's a mess. There is alot more things. I just don't want to be around it.