Why not try to help your mom around the house a bit.
Clean something without her asking.

Tell her you love her.

Go out and have some time with just you and her.

Find some things you have in common.

Tell her you want to be closer to her, but don't know how to do it.

It is perfectly normal for a teenager to start to pull away, but violence is never ok. Never. Never. Never. Unless your life is in danger.