Thanks AAAAA I appreciate your concern. Like I said, we are getting a lawyer to file the custody stuff for us.

Believe me, I'm not trying to sound blase about this, I am freaked out and scared to death of something like that. I have a lot of issues with being afraid of people I see in a role where they have power over me and this is a perfect example. He knows how to scare me. I'm doing the best I can to take care of it. Until about a year ago, it was just me and my son (I hadn't married yet) and its still hard to get used to the fact that I have someone fighting in my corner now. Anyway, we are going to get custody papers ASAP.