Glad you are going to get custody papers. I am so sorry for all the terror, anger, frustration and pain that came along with this nightmare. Is there anyway to have no contact with this man until the paperwork is finished? As in not answering his calls but recording them? Like you said, he likes to scare you because he knows it will wear you down. You sound very strong for your child...keep posting for support. Hang in there for just a bit longer. Like you said, this guy sounds really dangerous. He needs to be put away for a lot of stuff he has done.