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Originally Posted by cantstopcrying
In personal relationships. I know I say or do the wrong things because people get upset--angry--that I'm not responding how I "should"---in their view.
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Originally Posted by cantstopcrying
Because I frequently screw things up, say the wrong things, do the wrong things. Or at least say or do things that are perceived as wrong or whatever. I know I really am intellectually smart, I just suck at people skills, therefore at relationships. I try, I fail. Failing is learning, I know. But it's hurtful learning. I just feel stupid.
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So you look to the person that you are interacting with to get their approval if you are doing the right thing? Trouble, trouble, trouble........ This technique will whip you all over the place. Build your identity CSC, you decide what is best not everyone else......