You are 14 now and don't need affection???????

Not to sound harsh, but if you don't need affection from your mom....who do you think will give it to you? Do you think that the boy you say you are in love with will give it to you? Probably.... but not the kind you need.

Everyone from age 1 day old to 100 years old needs affection... WE need for our parents, no matter how old we are to show us they care. If you want to act like an adult, then you need to accept the fact that you are responsible for your OWN actions... She is responsible for hers.

I am not trying to lecture you. When I was a kid, had I punched my mom in the stomach... I would have been laid out..

Please think about how you react to situations.... Once you realize that you can change your eaction... it will be possible to be closer to your mom... instead of resisting her hugs, give her hugs for no reason!