Hi all,
Does anyone know of a safe natural way to reduce or get rid of your sex drive? Not that I believe mine was higher than average….just the usual incompatible partner situation.

Ive been with my girlfriend/partner for over 20 years and she’s never really been that interested (wouldn’t be with me if she was I suppose!).
Now I know its crass to bring things down to frequency, but just for examples sake…I would have been happy with sex once a week or so…while she only wanted it once a month or so (if I was lucky). I remember buying a 12 pack of condoms at the start of the year…and by the end of the year I still had some left! There was other issues, but Im trying to keep this short..

Over the years, and I hope without pressure (I guess she may feel different), I tried everything…romance…massages…asking if she had any fantasies…not bothering for a while etc etc. Neither of us have ever been unfaithful as far as I'm aware.

Then after all those years of frustration and receiving lots of loving and gentle rejections (but still rejections), I could take it no longer and gave up. I went to the doc and requested Prozac as I heard it killed your sex drive. And sweet bliss…it did. I wasn’t depressed anymore, and I couldn’t care less about sex anymore. What a relief!

But after two years on it, my doc advised I come off it, and its effectiveness would probably reduce anyway.

We haven't had sex for over a year now, but now I can feel my sex drive returning, and the old pangs of emptiness and depression with it.

So, apart form castration or lots of psychotherapy..are there any herbal alternatives to Prozac that get rid of your sex drive? (I guess if there was, the world would be full of women slipping it in their husbands tea!)

Just a thought.
Will have to try lots of meditation instead maybe.
Ho hum
MattC