I agree. Anyone touching my children in any bad way (incl drugs!!!) will be out of my life yesterday! ! !

I can understand that you may be addicted to this man as bipolar behaviour in a spouse can be addictive (its like a drug that keeps you up and brings you down so you become like a bi polar - if that makes sense...) - so I would look into your own issues of why you need this. Did you try therpay yourself?

I would like also to ask you - can you trust this guy? after the things he has done?

Remember that both sides of his personality are him himself. This is him. Volatile and irresponsible. Manipulative and charming.

Your kids deserve better! and so do you!!!!