Thanks for the reply IamTwilight!

I try to ignore the sexualisation in the media - though thats imposssible!
Also - and I have to admit Im a coward here - I dont discuss this with my girlfriend as it really doesnt seem to matter to her at all. And perhaps Im scared of what her answer would be.
Why do I feel the want to have sex? Why do any of us? Thats, thats what id like not to feel. Thats what Im trying to avoid. Its just too depressing.
Maybe thats me being a coward again and just looking to cop out.
This shouldnt be a big deal really. But Ive always felt it was important somehow, but now I think sometimes we just have to learn to let things go, and accept things as they are.
Back to the meditation thing!
Thanks for the idea about looking into chakras.
Best Wishes,
MattC