Crew,

If I understood you correctly they are coming to Your home and then treating you badly. If that is what you were saying I would advise you to "have plans" (made well in advance) that will prevent you from having a get together at your home. Even if your plan is simply imaginary it will give you an "out" where you need not subject yourself to unkindness in your own home from people who are supposed to be appreciative guests.

Sorry this has happened to you and hope you are OK now that it is past.

Concerned Hugs,

Leslie/Pixies