No, this is not true. What does hurting and being disgusting have to do with each other? You do not deserve to be hurt for being ill, TTBM. You deserve to be picked up gently, wrapped up securely and taken someplace warm and safe where you can get better. Nor is it disrespectfull to see where your father is wrong, as he is no less human than the rest of us, dear. Showing respect should not mean being walked all over! Please, dear, do not let dperssion lie to you and say you do not deserve care and help. every person born in this world deserves that in your position. Like Rohag says, talk directly to your T, or go to the emergency room and ask them for help, dear, please. Huggs.