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Originally Posted by TayQuincy
"my T said "I'm not going to listen to this if you're going to do that" I immediately shut off my feelings. My T has done that before. It really hurts me when she threatens to hang up on me for crying."
" As I understand it, my tears were from emotion mind insted of wise mind so she didn;t want to hear it. It hurts to hold it in."
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But this is why we're in therapy. We wouldn't be needing therapy if we could access and operate from our wise minds so easily when we're highly distressed.
I don't think she was handling your call from her "wise mind"... quite the opposite, actually. Like everybody else, therapists are not perfect and they have their moments of insensitivity, but I think she was quite harsh. I am so sorry, TayQuincy, you must be in a lot of pain.
I would be calling my T again to duke it out until it's resolved, but I can't suggest that for you since I don't know your relationship with your T. Would it be possible for you to communicate with her through email so you don't have to suffer until your next appointment?
Take care -- ((TayQuincy))
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Last edited by Hearty; Dec 31, 2009 at 04:21 PM.
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