I can understand her not wanting me to get all emotional over thoughts that may or may not be true. I was worried about my sister, thinking the worst. But, I also was just sad about what has happened to her. Deep down sadness that I have avoided feeling for a long time. I have avoided my sister altogether so as not to feel bad and triggered. We do trigger each other. But I don't think it is helpful for my t to tell me she won't listen to me, and in a harsh tone of voice. That only causes more problems for me. I guess maybe there could be another way she could express it? My T is human and like all humans doesn't always say the right thing.