hey again Matt! i would definitely feel like a coward too if i was in your situation, hehe.

i agree it shouldn't be a big deal but i also believe that when sexual urges derive from love, they are healthy. (unlike some of the stuff that the media tries to feed us.) and you're not very far in thinking that it is somehow important - it is a great opportunity to bond with your partner.

it's also true that some people have absolutely no interest in sex - that's called asexuality i believe. still, if this is the case i'd definitely recommend talking about it. sorry, that's just how it is with us who don't know how to communicate telepathically

it would be soo much better to find that out first and then perhaps accept things as they are, rather than automatically assume something and live in some sort of discontentment for the rest of your life without really knowing why.

i hope meditation will help you find some of the things you are looking for, it can be a completely new experience if you haven't studied chakras before. best wishes to you too.