My Support Forums - View Single Post - it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind :P

Jan 01, 2010, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by bloom3

i see it a bit differently. i think other people are responsible for their stuff (how they act & what they say) but i do think we are also responsible for how we respond. take gentle care of yourself Far.

I think that is what your t is saying to you. Your taking what she said as a guilt trip is your response to something that she didn't intend to be taken that way. She didn't intend that to be the effect of what she was saying. She regrets that you took it that way, but that is your response that you have to deal with.