Hi Cutbuddie,
I'm so sorry you had such a rotten experience last night. I was reading your earlier post where you posted about this guy and another guy who was interested in you and you were wondering about who to choose and some people gave you their opinions.
One of our members,
Rapunzel, said this to you:
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Take your time. You don't have to get serious about a guy yet. Get to know yourself and what you want out of life first, and then choose someone you love and who supports your goals and dreams. The 19-year-old could be right for you in a few years, but right now he may be using you and taking advantage of you. It's hard to know since I don't know him or you.
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I really think she hit the nail on the head and, unfortunately, I think that you found out she was right. He did use you and had no consideration for your concerns, your feelings, he didn't think that "NO MEANS NO", or any of the other considerations that any decent person should have. I don't know anything about the laws in Canada but in the United States, he could be charged with Statutory Rape.
I hope you are OK and if you need to talk to someone about this that you have someone that you can talk to who can help you with your feelings. You know that we are always here. There are many wonderful people here who have been through similar situations and much worse.
We are always here for you so please post often and ask for help dealing with your feelings.
