Exactly. That's why I was glad T defended himself about the scheduling mishaps.

When I spiral out on my own about something I *perceive* that he did, he doesn't take responsibility. When we have a misunderstanding and he has actually played a part in it (rather than me and my spiraly thoughts spinning off on their own), he always, ALWAYS takes responsibility for his part.

To me, it feels like he provides a really good example of how to communicate and how to be in a relationship. I like that.