I hardley ever look at my T, especially if I am the one talking, I look at a big picture on her wall to the left and sometimes on the one to the right.

She used to move her head to which ever side I was looking to try to get my attention, I think, but I still wouldn't look at her. Recently she mentioned something about me having a hard time looking at her but didn't make a big deal out of it. I don't know, maybe one day I will. Just know it's not uncommon to do that with your T.