THANKS FOR ALL THE INPUT. I don't get on here very often. Update
; son is doing fairly well. He has started communicating better. He has no computer access except for school work, which is supervised. He is no longer allowed togo the the other boys house. They are no longer friends. He cannot go to other peoples houses, they have to come over here. If I have to speak to him about something like correcting him, he goes and shuts himself in his room. I wish I could just lock him away sometime. anyway, thanks!