Thank you also 1Dayatatime2 and Allison for responding. I was just about to get offline when I saw your replys.

1Dayatatime2 - I find your reply interesting. I also can tell from your words that it must be very difficult at times for you. I hope things are going better soon or at least today. So your husband assumed a new identity even though he was still at home? I want to thanks you for your interest and helping.

Allison - You seem very nice and pleasant. Thank-you for your help also and your encouraging words.

Chalkdust