(((((((((((kerria)))))))))))

i'm sorry that you're feeling so badly. however, i have to defend myself i saying that there's not much i can't relate to. i, more often than not, attempt to show that relation. i've been doing so badly recently that i haven't been able to respond until now. because of that as well, i will keep this short.

there are ppl that understand and deal with chronic pain issues (i'm one. i dealt with it the best i could for 16 yrs before finding help and understanding. i was considered a neurotic nut i think). there are ppl that understand and deal with job issues (i'm one...always have been. i recently quit my job to stay at home. a difficult choice when one needs to work). there are ppl that understand how limiting DID is, especially when there's not the communication necessary to make it work better (i'm one). there are some that understand the massive familial lack of understanding for the problems (i'm one). there are ppl who have problems with t and worries there (i'm one). there are ppl who understand what it's like to deal with all of the above (i'm one)!

there are ppl who understand and who can relate. advice that's offered here is offered based on experience as to what has worked in the past for them. it's offered out of relation and care.

people care. people relate. people offer. i hope that you see that. i think it's important that you do at this time in your life. see the care, relation and understanding and try to accept it as such.

please be safe and know you're not alone,

kd