i am taking this from Miss_A's post on being a bad kid...
I read her post and kinda lashed out at her for hitting her mom.. I don't feel that hitting is the solution for any problem. I rarely spank my children, coming from a house where being hit by a belt was as common as tying your shoes. I thought my response was ok... but maybe it wasnt..There have been some posts saying that she is just a spoiled teenager... spoiled teenager... hmm. I would have to agree some of her behavior is a little dangerous, but havent we all done things that we wished later that we hadn't done? I mean if she is not getting the proper guidance from her parents, then how will she know how to act.. Her parents should be the ones telling her and showing her by example, right?
I know that this maybe touchy, and if it offends anyone i am sorry.
But what makes us mark someone as spoiled?
Think about it, arent we all just a little spoiled?
I know that I am! I am spoiled! If i weren able to get in the car and drive myself to the store, i would pitch a fit! Isnt that being spoiled? If I couldnt watch my show on tv, i would pout. Isnt that being spoiled?
Maybe i am just seeing this different than I did yesterday. Maybe i am totally wrong.
Again if this offends anyone, i apologize
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