Miss_A I know you are on vacation and wil not see this until you get back. When I first read this post, i read it but didnt take in to consideration your point of view.
Although I still stand that hitting anyone, especially your parent , is not the thing to do. I find that my self wondering, are your parents really there for you? Are they giving you the guidance you need to grow up and respect yourself and others? I know that many mothers feel a loss of connection with their teenage children, because they are becoming more and more independant. You mom probably really does care for you, and probably wants to know what is going on in your life. Maybe she hasnt been there for you in the past and she knows this and is trying to make for it know, but to you it may feel like she is invading your privacy. does any of this make sense?

In my opinon, since you feel so comfortable with your T, try taking your mom with you and have her sit and listen. Maybe have her make an appointment with you, so that you two can have a chance to talk with some one mutual there.

I really hope that you don't give up on your mom, or dad for that matter. You will find that one day you will need them.

Take care of yourself!!! I hope that your vacation went well!!