Tree, I dont talk about my husband, his a good guy, we've been together 26yrs and his still my friend...BUT I will say that there are things about him that I didnt see in the past because I was to busy being drunk and him to busy being codependent..and thats what I see in him now, and I dont want him to be like that, and I think because I am changing he is also...he said something the other day that surprised me as I never talk about my therapy with him EVER but we were talking about something and he said out of the blue "well thats something Ive learnt since you entered recovery, whose problems are whose problems" I smiled at that, to think firstly that he acknowledged that I hadnt just stopped drinkiing but that I was changing too and that it had helped him as well, he'd pick up on my recovery...it felt nice it felt like we are on this journey together...lots of struggling as we both shed our old skins but something wonderful to look forward too...I hope your husband sees the benefits and gets something out of your recovery too.