I think that "I" statements have their place, but I always watch for too many "I's" in my writing because I dont want it to sound self-centered. If I don't watch it I find myself putting in "I" almost every other word!

If you are talking about how you feel, "I" statements are the way to go though. Maybe the key is to make sure that the other person has a chance to express their feelings too.

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