Tay.....that has to be very hard to know how to deal with and I'm so sorry that happened. Like everyone else, I think you should bring up how this makes you feel in your next session. Sunrise brought up many good points. When you responded to one of them by saying if you were in session in "emotional mind", she would help you by using DBT skills.... is that something she cannot do over the phone? I don't know anything about this treatment, but it seems that it would be something she could also try over the phone. That has to be a better way for her to try and help than being condesending. Best of luck to you!!