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Old Jan 03, 2010, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by ECHOES View Post
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Neglect isn't necessarily something intentional. It is misattunement, or maybe chronic misattunement, but not necessarily intentional. This is what I struggle with.. that my parents did do the best they knew how, and that should be enough. But it wasn't.
YES. Times a Million!!! I'm still at the "it should be enough" part...maybe one day I will go past that, but I don't know.
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What is it that you feel they are getting that you want?
I don't think I can even connect it to that, just noticed my reaction to it. Its something about how wanted and loved the children must feel with that connection with their mom. But, on the other hand, I cant say I felt unwanted. I don't know...blech!