Could someone please remind me again what the purpose of T's being a blank slate is? My T has been 100% blank slate. The post about if T's have pets? I have NO idea. The one time I asked her a personal question- if she had kids - she deflected the question back to me, and I couldn't articulate why I wanted to know (it was simply because I wanted to know if she could *really* understand a parenting issue, which I couldn't get until my daughter was born).

Anyhow, it's sort of driving me nuts. And I have no idea if I should bring it up, or even how to. I don't want to seem stalker-ish. But it seems like the more she hides, the more curious I get. Who is this woman I'm spilling my life to?