well, WW, i knew you were a wonderful woman and this doesn't surprise me a bit! that you went out of your way, big time, to help these people, when they needed it most.....wow!! i'm sorry that folks didn't help you out when you needed it. i think it goes back to how they were reared. i was brought up to take food and do things for my neighbors. some of my friends weren't reared that way. and some people are just plain lazy and apathetic. who knows? what i know, is that you did a wonderful, wonderful thing! xoxo pat