I see my T once a week and it seems to be ok. Some days better than others but thats normal for all of us. Lena(16yr alter) hates my T. She even sabatoges the system so we don't go at times.

Anyway question is. Although my T knew about the lack of trust between her and Lena, she chose to confront her on what year it was. Lena was petrified and was out for several days after leaving T in tears.

Is this something I should recognize as a reason to find another T. I feel that its wrong what she did to Lena, however the majority of the system does NOT want to start over with someone else.

Any advice?

Ohhh I should add that other than that one incident my T has been fantastic.

Thx