No one judged *you* dreamseeker.
But, saying that *I* have no idea what *I'm* talking about, when I very clearly asked a rhetorical question *is* judgemental. Please do be cautious about casting that first stone. For a rhetorical question is one that is meant to elicit thought. It might do you well to just ponder for a bit what I wrote.... And not pretend that it doesn't happen.

And no one, least of all me, called one kiss on the cheek dispicable behavior.

But, it's still inappropriate by a therapist in a therapist/Client relationship, if *only* due to the nature of that relationship. It's *not* a balanced, equal relationship at all. There is a power and dependency differential. And *that* is what makes the difference. I'm sorry if you are not able to see that yet.

The fact that *some* deem relations with clients ok is irrelevant. Some also think sex with children is ok. Does that make it so? No, and any sane person knows it isn't.

Your post raises many more questions.
The more important issue, though, is this.

"Me thinks thou dost protest too much.... "

Here is a post you may glean some important information from:
http://primal-page.com/sexclie.htm

Good luck to you.
Really.

Peace!