I've read most of this thread and I have one idea. We don't know Miss A's mother and we don't KNOW what really goes on in their home. I think that Miss A could be exaggerating or not. But I definitely believe that she needs to get off the computer and help around the house, continue her therapy and take her meds. Solving life problems, on the internet, doesn't seem to be working for her. It's time to cook or get out of the kitchen.......xoxoxo pat