I've kinda moved on from the incident with my Dad. Its honestly not what I have on my mind a lot, although I guess its what triggered or at the least highly intensified my depression. He and I are getting along better, now any spats we have are more normal, not like they were after the incident. He's been supporting me more once he learned I had depression, and the incident with the police woke him up.
As for my depression, I'm a very logical and analytical, I know that once I've identified the problem, and gone to get the proper help, it will get better. I know I can get through that portion of it. My relationship with her, well I can't take a magical pill to get that back. I just feel bad that I didn't identify my problem sooner, as to not damage it.