No. It was my boyfriend at the time on my 16th birthday. I didn't tell anyone for a while I was scared. When I told my youth minister he told me I was lying that "D" would never do that. When I did go to the police I was told there was no point in going after him. He's popped up in my life on and off since but it's been almost a 17months since I've seen of heard from him. The police said I don't have enough for a restraining order. I tried to talk to my fiance about it before he went to work today about my fears. He told me I should be over it by now. Is that true should I be over it?