michele, i am so sorry for what you are going thru. your boyfriend is treating you really, really poorly. first, he shouldn't be "telling you" to bring his wallet to him. it's fine to ask though. the honking--that's just rude. kicking you out of bed is nuts. if he's angry he should sleep elsewhere. you are allowing a ton of crap. is he an alcoholic or drug addict? have you ever thought of going to CODA or Al-Anon? i think it might be really helpful in learning how to stand up for yourself and set appropriate boundaries. also, it would provide you with support locally if you don't have much.