Everyone gives such great advice.
I think that if he is willing to go to counselling then it's a positive sign, and my advice is if you both aren't happy with the therapist then find another one. The one Mark and I went to was just negative about the whole thing when we wanted to work on the issue.
The one I see now is great but by the time I found him it was too late to try couples counselling so I just for for myself
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